Why is dating so hard? There’s a lot of reasons why dating is difficult. It is hard for me to meet people, and when I do I tend to be very picky. Online dating seems to be what everyone is doing. Personally, I hate online dating. The thought of having to swipe left or right on strangers pains me. It seems like anytime I chat with a guy from an app, it fizzles out and we ghost each other. A friend of mine was online dating, and broke up with the guy while walking on the river walk. Unfortunately, that didn’t work out and they walked back in silence. I have only ever dated one guy from a dating app, and it clearly did not work out. However, that is okay!
How do you meet people organically anymore? When we were younger, we met people through school and sports. Now, most of us work from home, so it is hard to meet people there. Meeting someone at the bar is never a good idea. If you want a serious relationship, the bar is not the place to meet someone. Whenever I’ve met guys at the bar, they have ended up ghosting me. Where does that leave us? Trader Joe’s? Starbucks? Why can’t life be like a Hallmark Christmas movie?
Being single in your 20s is definitely not a bad thing! However, I myself feel pressured to hurry up and settle down. It seems like all I see on social media is people getting engaged, married, and pregnant. But, we are all on different paths. Dating and settling down doesn’t have to be a rush. There is a right person for everyone out there! Dating is an on going process, but it will all be worth it in the end!
Happy dating,
Dani
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